I started thinking about writing this blog with one question in mind, what is dating about in 2011? I did a little research and came up with the following insights, I hope you will agree or share your comments with me on the subject:
Good Dating Judgment Comes From Experience and from Getting the Inside Scoop –
- There are no “steadfast rules” anymore
- Women are still battling stereotypes
- Too many men are confused about their masculinity
- Financials are a serious consideration in potential mating opportunities
- Women are still looking for security over love but many still do not realize it
- Men whether they admit it or not are looking to marry-up to improve their status
- Women with children are not out of the dating game as much as they think they are
- Some men actually prefer to work their way into a family unit rather than start one up from scratch
- Men like women to carry their own weight but don’t know how to express their preference
- Men need to feel as if they are needed
- Women are less in touch with their femininity and more about trying to meet marketing dictates about how they should look and act
- Men know the difference and shy away from women who have to try too hard to be “pretty”
If you want to be a successful dating who to Stay Clear of the Following:
- A person who falls in love too fast
- A name dropper – someone who tries to overly impress you
- Men or women who mistreat pets or who have no use for them
- People who hates children or cannot be bothered by their presence even for a short time
- Those who lives in a completely sterile environments devoid of any plants, flowers or any other signs of natural life
- People who cannot mention having a good time without connecting enjoyment to substances such as: alcohol, recreational drugs or enormous amounts of rich food
- Candidates who never want to introduce you to family or close friends
- People who act awkward when you suggest that they meet your family and friends and make all kinds of excuses to avoid potential encounters
- Shifts the conversation when you mention long-term plans of any sort
- Speaks only of issues and concerns that involve him or her personally
- Expects too much from you and resists turn taking
- Wants to share intimate details about life way too soon in your relationship
- Keeps talking about Ex’s and how he or she was victimized by them
Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely. ~Auguste Rodin
CNN’s Matchmaker’s Tips on Dating
Thoughts on Serial Dating
Some Profound Very Personal Female Insights on the Why’s and Wherefores of Dating
http://datingdc.wordpress.com/2011/02/19/why-do-i-write-this-blog/
Pointers on How To Enchant Women
http://www.100-dating-tips.com/
Cashing in on Corporate Dating Nuances – A Glimpse into a Premier Dating Service
http://datingdc.wordpress.com/2011/02/19/why-do-i-write-this-blog/
Sexual Politics in Higher Education and Beyond – Dating Bans in the Corporate World
http://dankprofessor.wordpress.com/2007/09/11/dating-bans-in-the-corporate-world/
Tips on Avoiding Dating Discomfort
http://attractyoursoulmate.blogspot.com/2008/11/larina-kase-on-facing-dating-discomfort.html
Intelligent Interactions – what to say and not to say on a date
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xbzccc_secrets-to-successful-dating-conver_webcam
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